We treat happiness like an afterthought, something to chase after we’ve hit our goals, after we’ve "made it." But what if I told you that joy isn’t a destination, it’s fuel?
Last week, I closed my laptop at 3PM, ignored my to-do list, and ate amala at my favorite spot like a woman who hadn’t just refreshed her bank app 17 times. For two hours, I wasn’t "building my future." I was living my present. And guess what? The world didn’t end. My deadlines didn’t collapse. But I felt human again.
Why We Treat Happiness Like a Luxury
The hustle lie: "Grind now, relax later." (Spoiler: "later" rarely comes.)
Guilt culture: Taking a break feels like "wasting time" in a world that glorifies burnout.
Fear: If we stop moving, we might realize we’re running toward nothing.
Truth: You can’t pour from an empty cup. Even your phone charges to 100% before working.
Small Investments, Big Returns
You don’t need a vacation budget to invest in joy. Try:
The "Amala Break" Rule: Swap one "productive" lunch hour a week for actual enjoyment (no guilt allowed).
The N500 Happiness Hack: Buy that ice cream. Watch that silly movie. Deliberate joy > mindless scrolling.
The "Do Nothing" Experiment: Sit still for 10 minutes—no phone, no agenda. (Warning: It’s harder than it sounds.)
The ROI of Happiness
When you prioritize joy:
Creativity flows easier (your best ideas won’t come while stressed).
Resilience grows (happy you handles setbacks better).
Life feels… lighter (even when it’s hard).
Life isn’t just about surviving until some mythical "happy ending." The joy is in the journey, if you let yourself taste it.
This week, invest in one tiny act of happiness. Then tell me:
What’s your version of the "amala break"?
I’ll go first,
"Last month, I skipped a ‘networking event’ to rewatch Jenifa’s Diary with popcorn. Zero regrets—just serotonin."
(Reply or comment—I need new ideas!)
I'm with you! Chop Amala! Whenever I feel close to a burnout, I get myself something sweet and tangy. Food is the easiest way to press pause in this fast world. Also I have a system clone on my phone that lets me escape my toxic notifications for a while and just gist with friends.